Sam, what is ‘destiny’?
Destiny is what is going to happen to us in the future. We think the future exists but it does not exist only now exists. You see every action we take is one of a nearly infinite number of quantum choices. Our future is not set. Every act we make and every observation pins that moment down as “reality”. Until we act and observe the future is a myriad of possibilities. So, time, for us as three dimensional creatures is like a filp book. Every page on the book is a NOW. In this way we create our own unique realities one page at a time.